The title compound was obtained from the reaction of N, N-dimethylbenzylamine with n-butyl lithium and sulfur in tetrahydrofuran at room temperature. Its molecular structure was investigated by means of single crystal X-ray diffraction and quantum chemical DFT methods. The formation of meso-1,2-bis(dimethylamino)-1,2-diphenylethane is likely to be due to an unusual α-deprotonation of N, N-dimethylbenzylamine, instead of the well known ortho-lithiation, with a subsequent oxidative C-C coupling of the anions. Ab initio calculations of the corresponding α-and o-deprotonated anions of N, N-dimethylbenzylamine showed the former to be more stable than the latter, due to delocalisation of the negative charge over the π-system of the phenyl ring. The choice of solvent and temperature is seen as the main reason for the unusual course of the reaction.