For any symplectic form ω on T 2 × S 2 we construct infinitely many nonisomorphic finite groups which admit effective smooth actions on T 2 × S 2 that are trivial in cohomology but which do not admit any effective symplectic action on (T 2 × S 2 , ω). We also prove that for any ω there is another symplectic form ω ′ on T 2 × S 2 and a finite group acting symplectically and effectively on (T 2 × S 2 , ω ′ ) which does not admit any effective symplectic action on (T 2 × S 2 , ω).A basic ingredient in our arguments is the study of the Jordan property of the symplectomorphism groups of T 2 × S 2 . A group G is Jordan if there exists a constant C such that any finite subgroup Γ of G contains an abelian subgroup whose index in Γ is at most C. Csikós, Pyber and Szabó proved recently that the diffeomorphism group of T 2 × S 2 is not Jordan. We prove that, in contrast, for any symplectic form ω on T 2 × S 2 the group of symplectomorphisms Symp(T 2 × S 2 , ω) is Jordan. We also give upper and lower bounds for the optimal value of the constant C in Jordan's property for Symp(T 2 ×S 2 , ω) depending on the cohomology class represented by ω. Our bounds are sharp for a large class of symplectic forms on T 2 × S 2 .