We theoretically investigate the interlayer dipolar and exchange couplings for an array of metallic magnetic nanowires grown on top of an extended ultrathin yttrium iron garnet film. The calculated interlayer dipolar coupling agrees with observed anticrossings [Chen et al., Phys. Rev. Lett. 120, 217202 (2018)], concluding that the interlayer exchange coupling is suppressed by a spacer layer between the nanowires and film. The Kittel mode in the nanowire array couples chirally to spin waves in the film, even though Damon-Eshbach surface modes do not exist. The chirality is suppressed when the interlayer exchange coupling becomes strong.In the experiments, a coplanar waveguide on top of the NWA|YIG system of Fig. 1 is tuned to the NWA Kittel mode, in which the magnetization of all wires precesses in phase. Due to the large magnetization and form anisotropy of Co and Ni, this frequency is much higher arXiv:1901.09182v1 [cond-mat.mes-hall]