We prove two gluing theorems for special Lagrangian (SL) conifolds in C m . Conifolds are a key ingredient in the compactification problem for moduli spaces of compact SLs in Calabi-Yau manifolds.In particular, our theorems yield the first examples of smooth SL conifolds with three or more planar ends and the first (non-trivial) examples of SL conifolds which have a conical singularity (CS) but are not, globally, cones. We also obtain: (i) a desingularization procedure for transverse intersection and self-intersection points, using 'Lawlor necks'; (ii) a construction which completely desingularizes any SL conifold by replacing isolated CSs with non-compact asymptotically conical (AC) ends; (iii) a proof that there is no upper bound on the number of AC ends of an SL conifold and (iv) the possibility of replacing a given collection of CSs with a completely different collection of CSs and of AC ends.As a corollary of (i), we improve a result by Arezzo and Pacard (Comm. Pure Appl. Math. 56 (2003) 283-327) concerning minimal desingularizations of certain configurations of SL planes in C m , intersecting transversally.