“…Their findings suggest that the meanings people attach to sex play an important role in the specific practices in which they engage (Remien et al, 1995;Rhodes & Cusick, 2000;Worth, Reid, & McMillan, 2002). These studies have led to the hypothesis that men in HIV-discordant couples face a challenge because of at least two different types of risks: On the one hand, men need to evaluate the risk of infection or re-infection if they do not wear condoms; on the other hand, they need to evaluate how they feel about losing intimacy and mutual connection by wearing condoms to reduce their health risk (Blechner, 2002;Gold, Skinner, & Ross, 1994;Rosenthal, Gifford, & Moore, 1998).…”