Although there has been increased recognition in the research literature of the profound grief reaction following pregnancy termination due to fetal anomaly, many medical caregivers continue to assume mistakenly that responses are much milder, akin to elective abortion. This paper details the additional psychological burdens and tasks demanded by this pregnancy loss ‐the moral and marital challenges in making the decision of whether to terminate, the psychological quandary of whether a pregnancy or a life has been ended, the amplified shame and reluctance to share this loss with others due to current societal controversy regarding elective abortion, and the uncertainty of what to tell one's children about this loss. Clinical implications, recommendations, and case examples are offered.