The regiospecifity of the dimerization of the transient 2‐(2‐methoxyphenyl)‐1,1‐bis(trimethylsilyl)silene (6), synthesized by base‐initiated trimethylsilanolate elimination from (2‐methoxyphenyl)[tris(trimethylsilyl)silyl]methanol (5) according to a modified Peterson mechanism, decisively depends on the donating ability of the solvent in which the silene is generated. In ether, 6 undergoes a formal [2 + 2] dimerization to afford 3,4‐bis(2‐methoxyphenyl)‐1,1,2,2‐tetrakis(trimethylsilyl)‐1,2‐disilacyclobutane (12), whereas in toluene the head‐to‐tail [2 + 2] cyclodimer, 2,4‐bis(2‐methoxyphenyl)‐1,1,3,3‐tetrakis(trimethylsilyl)‐1,3‐disilacyclobutane (13) was obtained. 1,1‐Bis(trimethylsilyl)‐2‐(2,4,6‐trimethoxyphenyl)silene (18), similarly made by a modified Peterson reaction, under the same conditions reacted with the eliminated trimethylsilanolate with readdition at the polar Si=C bond to give, after hydrolysis, 2‐(2,4,6‐trimethoxybenzyl)‐1,1,1,3,3,3‐hexamethyl‐2‐(trimethylsiloxy)trisilane (19). A possible mechanism explaining the solvent‐dependent regiospecificity of the dimerization of 6 is discussed. The structures of 12 and 13 were determined on the basis of NMR and MS data as well as X‐ray structural analyses.