We have used kinetic Monte Carlo simulations to study the kinetics of unfolding of cross-linked polymer chains under mechanical loading. As the ends of a chain are pulled apart, the force transmitted by each crosslink increases until it ruptures. The stochastic crosslink rupture process is assumed to be governed by first order kinetics with a rate that depends exponentially on the transmitted force. We have performed random searches to identify optimal crosslink configurations whose unfolding requires a large applied force (measure of strength) and/or large dissipated energy (measure of toughness). We found that such optimal chains always involve cross-links arranged to form parallel strands. T he location of those optimal strands generally depends on the loading rate. Optimal chains with a small number of cross-links were found to be almost as strong and tough as optimal chains with a large number of cross-links. Furthermore, optimality of chains with a small number of cross -links can be easily destroyed by adding cross-links at random. The present findings are relevant for the interpretation of single molecule force probe spectroscopy studies of the mechanical unfolding of "loadbearing" proteins, whose native topology often involves parallel strand arrangements similar to the optimal configurations identified in the study.