“…A paradox directive may also be utilized when only one member of the couple would be more likely to follow a directive (Haley & Richeport-Haley, 2003; Madanes, 1981). The counselor identified the husband as, initially, the most willing person to make the smallest changes (Gardner et al, 2006). The husband was asked to let his wife know every time he was going to cross-dress, to follow through with his choice, and to not isolate before, during, or after cross-dressing.…”