“…Within this paternal order, the psychic functions of penetration, insemination, guardianship, law‐making, and enforcement prevail (Bollas ). In short, an investigative attitude and a focused mind—enabling the analyst to listen to abstract meaning (Parsons ), as well as to integrate, represent, and make meaning—help the analyst “dismantle and investigate” (Birksted‐Breen , p. 30) as well as withstand the pressure to act. The analytic position, then, is a third position at its very core, one that comprises both a “personal,” maternal dimension and a “technical,” paternal one, grounded in both mutuality and asymmetry, respectively (Zweibel ).…”