Gay men have been implicated in neoliberal urban development strategies (e.g., the creative city) as a 'canary' population that forecasts growth. Paradoxically, both the neoliberal re-development of North American inner-cities and the ways in which gay men become neoliberalized as individuals contributes to the fracture and dissolution of urban gay communities. In contrast to discourses of homonormativity, which suggests that gay men's declining attachments to gay communities stem from new equalities and consequent desires to assimilate into the mainstream, this article argues that gay men in D.C. have internalized neoliberal discourses that call for career development, home ownership and social hypermobilities. The narratives of 24 gay-identified men living in D.C., indicate that the social and spatial dissolution the gay community is framed by difficult-to-achieve aspirations, such as career advancement in a transient local economy, property ownership in an outof-reach market, and social status based on an ability to move through multiple neighbourhoods and venues with ease. As might be expected, African American and working class men are often left beyond the fray of these new ideals.