Five palladium(II) complexes bearing potentially tetradentate pyridine-functionalized diNHC ligands with flexible linkers have been synthesized and characterized to study how coordination modes can be controlled by design and electronic factors. A combination of analytical techniques, including single-crystal X-ray diffraction and conductivity measurements, reveal that more strongly donating benzimidazole-derived NHCs induce tridentate coordination to form cationic N,C,C-pincer complexes, while more weakly donating 1,2,4-triazolinylidenes form neutral dibromido-dicarbene complexes with two pendant pyridyl groups. Increasing the flexibility between pyridyl and NHC units gives rise to a dicationic complex with a tetradentate ligand involving coordination of all four donors. The electronic influences from the different NHC donors can be rationalized by a Gutmann analysis.