Complexes of the nitrates of beryllium, magnesium, calcium, strontium and barium with the phosphine oxides OPPh 3 , Ph 2 P(O)CH 2 P(O)Ph 2 , and o-C 6 H 4 (P(O)Ph 2 ) 2 have been prepared and characterised by analysis and IR spectroscopy and the structures ofhave been determined. The solution speciation has been probed by a combination of 1 H, 31 P{ 1 H} and 9 Be NMR spectroscopy and conductance measurements. The variation in speciation and stability from Be-Ba is interpreted in terms of changes in the charge/radius ratio of the cations-thus whilst Be and Mg interact strongly with the phosphinoyl ligands, strontium and especially barium have very limited affinity for these ligands, and the complexes are extensively dissociated in solution.