“…Attachment research has provided evidence that when parents display frightened, frightening, or otherwise disrupted forms of affective communication with their infants, the infants may fail to develop an organized strategy for achieving comfort from their caregivers and instead show contradictory and disorganized approach-avoidance behavior toward the parent (Lyons-Ruth, Bronfman, & Parsons, 1999;. Recently, infants of mothers with BPD have also been reported to display a high prevalence of disorganized attachment (80%) (Hobson, Patrick, Crandell, Garcia-Perez, & Lee, 2005). Other studies of infants with disorganized attachments indicate that by 3 -5 years old, many previously disorganized infants reorganize their attachment behaviors into either a controlling -punitive attachment pattern (hostile or humiliating behavior towards parent) or a controlling-caregiving pattern (helping, Borderline and dysthymic women 3 protecting, worrying about the parent; Main, Kaplan, & Cassidy, 1985;NICHD Early Child Care Research Network, 2001;Wartner, Grossmann, Fremmer-Bombik, & Suess, 1994).…”