The cognitive underpinnings of perceptions of risk in intimacy (RII) were investigated in two studies. Using response times to measure schema accessibility, we found partial support for the hypothesis that, although most people have risk-in-intimacy schemas available in memory, those schemas are more accessible to high-RII individuals. In Study 1, high-RII women responded to relationship events more quickly and rated those events as representing greater risk than did low-RII women. In Study 2, high-RII individuals interpreted ambiguous social situations more negatively and did so more quickly than low-RII individuals. In some cases, however, high-RII individuals responded more slowly than low-RII individuals. Possible explanations for these findings are discussed.
KEY WORDS • intimacy • risk in intimacy • romantic relationships • schemasOver the years, researchers have defined intimacy in a variety of ways. Perlman and Fehr (1987) argued that interpersonal closeness, interdependence, and feelings of warmth and affection are critical characteristics of intimacy. Similarly, Prager (1995) described intimate relationships as those that involve enduring affection between the partners, mutual trust, a sense of togetherness, and the sharing of time and activities. Such definitions imply that intimacy is a pleasurable and rewarding enterprise.Indeed, much of the research suggests that interpersonal intimacy is both desirable and beneficial. Satisfying close relationships contribute to overall happiness (e.g. Myers, 1992). Moreover, people who have close relation-