The purpose of this study was to identify parental eating messages from the point of view of 340 college students and the relationship of these messages to dietary guideline practices. Four types of parental eating messages were identified: (1) threat or guilt, (2) picky eater, (3) food as health, (4) critical weight. Five types of dietary guide practices were identified: (1) fat meals and snacks, (2) vegetable–fruit, (3) sugar‐salt convenience food, (4) fitness–protein–carbohydrate, (5) fat add‐ons. The lack of association of parental eating messages with any of the dietary guideline factors suggests that messages are not affecting the food choices of these college students. Parental messages may in fact represent the way different cultures address eating, parenting and caring.