2012
DOI: 10.1016/j.paid.2011.10.047
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Parenting perfectionism and parental adjustment

Abstract: The parental role is expected to be one of the most gratifying and rewarding roles in life. As expectations of parenting become ever higher, the implications of parenting perfectionism for parental adjustment warrant investigation. Using longitudinal data from 182 couples, this study examined the associations between societal- and self-oriented parenting perfectionism and new mothers’ and fathers’ parenting self-efficacy, stress, and satisfaction. For mothers, societal-oriented parenting perfectionism was asso… Show more

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“…However, these mothers also scored high on the Critical Assessment and the Physically Controlling scales during the Etch‐A‐Sketch task, which appears to be counterintuitive. We speculate that this factor assessed how much the mother enjoyed her role as a mother or wished to convey her enjoyment, perhaps with consideration for social desirability and performance, because maternal perfectionism was linked not only to higher levels of criticism, but also to higher levels of parenting satisfaction in previous studies . The loading of the EAS subscales suggest that these mothers prioritised reaching the goals of the task (drawing the house) compared to cooperating with their children.…”
Section: Discussionmentioning
confidence: 87%
“…However, these mothers also scored high on the Critical Assessment and the Physically Controlling scales during the Etch‐A‐Sketch task, which appears to be counterintuitive. We speculate that this factor assessed how much the mother enjoyed her role as a mother or wished to convey her enjoyment, perhaps with consideration for social desirability and performance, because maternal perfectionism was linked not only to higher levels of criticism, but also to higher levels of parenting satisfaction in previous studies . The loading of the EAS subscales suggest that these mothers prioritised reaching the goals of the task (drawing the house) compared to cooperating with their children.…”
Section: Discussionmentioning
confidence: 87%
“…Or, parents of intelligent, high-achieving children may also be high-achieving and successful (e.g., heritability for IQ is moderate), and put greater pressure on themselves and their children to excel, exacerbating stress. For example, parenting stress is associated with parental perfectionism (Lee, Schoppe-Sulivan, & Kamp Dush, 2012) and use of more controlling strategies regarding children’s academics (Rogers, Wiener, Marton, & Tannock, 2009), which may impair parent-child relations and exacerbate familial stress among high-achieving children (Qin, Rak, Rana, & Donnellan, 2012). As caregivers of children with greater cognitive abilities likely have higher expectations, they may become increasing discouraged and overwhelmed when their intelligent and capable child succumbs to emotional and behavioral dysregulation, does not perform the way he/she otherwise might, and experiences unexpected social problems.…”
Section: Discussionmentioning
confidence: 99%
“…The data also support Giles and colleagues' () supposition that intended parenting behaviors take shape long before the transition to parenthood, and early interventions may therefore be fruitful to the extent that intentions are more malleable in the early stages of their formation. Parenting educators should, however, also discuss the positive and negative reasons for which parenting behaviors diverge from parenting intentions, because acknowledging the inevitability that some different‐than‐intended decisions will be made could reduce the pressure, worry, and guilt that parents with young children often feel (Delmore‐Ko, Pancer, Hunsberger, & Pratt, ; M. A. Lee, Schoppe‐Sullivan, & Kamp Dush, ).…”
Section: Discussionmentioning
confidence: 99%
“…Parenting educators should, however, also discuss the positive and negative reasons for which parenting behaviors diverge from parenting intentions, because acknowledging the inevitability that some different-than-intended decisions will be made could reduce the pressure, worry, and guilt that parents with young children often feel (Delmore-Ko, Pancer, Hunsberger, & Pratt, 2000; M. A. Lee, Schoppe-Sullivan, & Kamp Dush, 2012).…”
Section: Implications and Future Directionsmentioning
confidence: 99%