Quantum theoretical studies show that the extremely high proton affinity at the metal center of the unusual T-shaped (LXL)Au -pincer complex, consisting of a carbazole framework and two mesoionic carbenes, is caused by relativistic effects. This brings the basicity of the Au center in line with the electron-rich nitrogen atom of the carbazole ring system, resulting in one of the highest proton affinities for a neutral molecule.