Arguing that the complex dynamic inherent in institutionalized domestic work during apartheid and its impact on social and institutional relationships is still salient in contemporary South Africa, I unpack the way in which White narrators construct their relationship with Black domestic workers in their memories of apartheid. Drawing on the nearly 200 narratives that have been submitted to the Apartheid Archive Project (www.apartheidarchive.org.za), I examine stories that reflect the foundational nature of the institution of domestic work for the reproduction of White and middle-class privilege and power. I focus on the way in which relations of power are articulated through domestic practices narrated in the stories collected, and the construction of normative White privilege and authority through the power and control the White child is granted in relation to Black adults. The article also highlights the enmeshment of care/intimacy and humiliation/denigration in this institution which may persist in contemporary South Africa and be implicated in violence and abuse of Black women in particular. It further explores how White narrators' stories are imbued with emotion and nostalgia, articulating notions of love, family, nurturance, and comfort in their stories of their “nannies,” while at the same time, it is argued, fraught with guilt and discomfort at the recognition of their part in oppression.