“…As the editors of The Sexuality of Men suggest, men are often 'emotionally illiterate' 45 and rely on women to translate or mediate their emotional lives. 46 This occurs to such an extent, that Phyllis Chesler observes that, 'Men's need for maternal compassion and approval is so great, so unconscious, so pervasive, that its shadow fell across every relationship or encounter I've ever had with men'.…”