“…Previous studies have highlighted parents' experiences of having their child in an NICU (Lindberg et al , ; Diffin et al , ) and experiences when the mother is in an ICU and the child might be in an NICU (Engström and Lindberg, , ; Lindberg and Engström, ) or about parental communication needs with health care professionals (Meert et al , ; Fegran and Helseth, ). When one looks for research about parents' experiences of intensive care when their child is between 1 and 18 years of age, the articles we found on the subject compare parents' stress and experiences in the cases of acutely ill, intubated children and acutely ill non‐intubated children, and parents' experiences of being present or not during resuscitation of their child in a children's ICU (Haines et al , ; Maxton, ).…”