French populations of the codling moth Cydia pomonella (L.) (Lepidoptera, Tortricidae), a major pest in apple and pear orchards, have developed resistance to different classes of insecticides including the benzoylurea diflubenzuron, a chitin synthesis inhibitor. Ovicidal tests performed on two susceptible strains and one strain selected for its resistance to diflubenzuron revealed the same order of magnitude in resistance ratios to this compound (30‐fold) and two other benzoylureas teflubenzuron and flufenoxuron (22‐ and 11‐fold, respectively). Field rates of these three compounds induced a 45–55% decrease in hatching in the resistant strain, compared to over 90% in the susceptible insects. Despite a 52‐fold ovicidal resistance ratio to the juvenile hormone analog fenoxycarb, this compound induced a 85% decrease in hatching in the resistant strain. Conversely the newly hatched larvae of the resistant strain exhibited a 45 000‐, 33‐ and 2.1‐fold resistance ratio to diflubenzuron, teflubenzuron and flufenoxuron, respectively. The latter value was not significant, and the field rate of flufenoxuron killed over 97% of the resistant larvae while diflubenzuron had no effect. This lack of relationship between ovicidal and larvicidal resistance may be due to different transport properties together with differential enzymatic metabolization. Our results may limit the validity of substitution instars, which approach is frequently used for resistance monitoring. More importantly for resistance management, the resistance of different target instars to each compound has to be considered when establishing control strategies.