A dielectric surface grating has been used to control the polarization of VCSELs. This grating is etched into the surface of top-emitting VCSELs. Its influence on the polarization depends strongly on the grating parameters like period and etching depth. With optimized parameters one can suppress the orthogonal polarization by 15 dB, even for highly multi-mode devices. By combining the surface grating with the well-known surface relief technique, we have fabricated first devices having high single-mode output power and stable polarization at the same time.