Moral competence and the democratic way of living 570 Surely, moral ideals and orientations are indispensible for moral-democratic behavior and for a democratic civil society. Without them we would have no idea how we wish to take right decisions, to live together or to be governed. Ideally they provide a basis for the solution of conflicts between needs and between opinions by means of rational reflection and free discourse, instead of the use of violence or the exercise of power. The Indian-American economist and philosopher Armatya Senn (2010) speaks of democracy through discussion. Also for the American educator Dewey (1964), democracy is more than a form of government and more than the sum total of actually existing democratic institutions; it is a life form.Yet, we need not to be concerned about ideals and orientations. As world-wide studies have repeatedly shown, there is an overall consensus in all classes of society, countries and cultures on basic moral values such as social justice, respect, cooperation, non-violence and democracy 2 . Some scholars even believe that these moral ideals are, at least in their core, genetically determined 3 . Accordingly a -transmission‖ of moral and democratic values is unnecessary (and, I assume, not agreeable with our democratic principles).What is rather lacking and seems necessary is the fostering of -the power of attaining good‖, as Socrates, the great Greek philosopher, said more than two thousand years ago, that is, our ability to apply our moral ideals in everyday life. If this competence is missing, our moral ideals can turn into ethical absolutism, and, eventually, into morally motivated violence 4 . In most of us, this ability is weakly developed. This ability involves, above all, the ability to make judgments in accordance with our own moral principles and to solve conflicts non-violently through discussion, even when we deal with important issues, and when we face strong opposition and our fundamental moral principles are at stake 5 . We need this ability in order -to participate in social, civic and working life. To be able to deal with people coming from different social and cultural backgrounds. To be able to cope in a constructive way with conflicts.To have a knowledge, skills and attitudes needed to be active as a citizen. To participate as much as possible in civic live at local, regional, national, European and global level.‖ (‗Youth in Action'-Programs of the European Union) 6