“…Prior to the 2000s, sweethearting or adultery was found to be equally common in married men than women (12%), but husbands were more likely than wives to have a history of sweethearting, (48% vs 22%; Grant, 1999), the lack of exclusivity, particularly within marriage, may cause tensions in marital relationships (Otterbein, 1963) and so result in psychological abuse, and silent suffering (Atapour et al, 2021). In the Bahamian context where rape myths are prevalent (Williams et al 2021) and married men protected by the law from having sex with their wives without their consent, some feel that their wife cannot refuse her husband (Wallace, 2018). These situations can therefore prove to be even more psychologically distressing because if she does submit to sexual intercourse she may be doing so without voluntary consent.…”