“…In consequence, the fathers usually possess a certain power in terms of cultural capital. As Fan and Huang (1998, 230) have observed, although Chinese traditional cultural norms advocate that in-laws should have similar socio-economic positions 'men dang hu dui', husbands are widely expected to be superior to wives in terms of age, height, educational background, occupational prestige and socio-economic status (Lavely 1991;Shen 1996;Weeks 1989). Many men in contemporary China believe that 'a family cannot have two strong-willed members' and 'intelligent, well-educated women will not be ideal obedient wives' (Weeks 1989, 509).…”