“…Thus, individuals with less differentiation may struggle to self-regulate emotional reactions when faced with relationship stressors, withdraw from their partners in times of need, and have difficulties supporting their partner without feeling a loss of self-direction or selfhood (Bowen, 1978;Kerr & Bowen, 1988;Schnarch, 1997). Further, empirical research has supported the theoretical assertions of Bowen's theory (see Miller, Anderson, & Keals, 2004) and consistently found that differentiation of self is positively associated with relationship quality and satisfaction in marital relationships (Lim & Jennings, 1996;Parsons, Nalbone, Killmer, & Wetchler, 2007;Peleg, 2008;Skowron, 2000;Skowron & Friedlander, 1998;Spencer & Brown, 2007).…”