“…This is a time period when children may be re-evaluating their perceptions of how much
they matter to their parents because many parents tend to distance themselves
emotionally from their offspring during adolescence in an effort to promote independence
(Larson, Richards, Moneta, Holmbeck, & Duckett,
1996; Larson & Richards, 1991). If
their efforts to promote independence result in less time spent interacting with their
adolescents, parents risk inadvertently giving children the message that they now matter
less (Stevenson et al, 2014). Shaken confidence
in how much adolescents feel they matter to their parents could help explain the
substantial parental impact on adolescents’ adjustment, including self-esteem,
delinquent behaviors (Parker & Benson, 2005),
and peer and dating relationships (Leidy, Schofield,
& Parke, 2013; Linder & Collins,
2005).…”