Living with a dying parent when one is at a young age is considered among the most traumatic experiences a person can have (Phillips, 2014). The loss can result in physical, cognitive, emotional and behavioural problems, and many children and adolescents, in this study defined as 2-18 years of age (Office of the High Commissioner for Human Rights, 1989; World Health Organization, 2001), struggle for years after the parent's death (Phillips, 2014;Torbic, 2011). This study was conducted from the children and adolescents' perspective and focuses on their preferences for support during the period before and immediately after the parent's death. In this context, preferences are linked to children and adolescents' first choice in how they want to be supported. This includes both support from professionals and other social networks. Such knowledge is needed when designing interventions to prevent ill health among bereaved children and adolescents and to improve the quality of palliative care. The consequences of not exploring different preferences may be that supportive interventions do not work as they should, and thus unsatisfactory help is generated for this vulnerable group.
| BACKG ROU N DChildren and adolescents living with a parent who has a lifethreatening illness are at risk of developing long-lasting symptoms and ill health. To eliminate outcomes such as low self-esteem, behavioural difficulties (e.g., anger and aggression), long-term illness