Memories of past events and conflicts often remain inextricably woven into the fabric of the present in the lives of both victims and perpetrators living in post‐conflict societies. Interpersonal forgiveness is important in the process of repairing the relationship between individuals previously in conflict. An act of interpersonal forgiveness allows the victim to let go of their feelings of anger and hurt felt towards the perpetrator and, in essence, cancels the “debt” owed on the part of the perpetrator. The victim thereby gives up their right to revenge, which allows the victim and the perpetrator to work towards repairing their relationship.