We have measured proton NMR T2 relaxation spectra in Arco R45M OH‐terminated poly‐butadienes (PBs) cured with isophorone diisocyanate and filled with 65 wt % SiO2 particles of each of six different average sizes. Identifying the short T2 component with the gel, we find that the gel fraction is displaced from nominal NCO/OH stoichiometry, probably as a result of water adsorbed on filler particle surfaces. Near effective stoichiometry and in the presence of filler, molecular and segmental mobilities decrease, most strongly in specimens with the smallest filler particles. Comparison with parallel Monte Carlo simulations of the PB matrix geometry indicates that segmental mobility and sol migration decrease uniformly in a wide vicinity of the filler particles. Thus the rigidification of the matrix measured via NMR has a range of approximately 1‐3 μm from nearby filler particle surfaces, representing the rms diffusion distance of the light components of the sol during the T2 relaxation. © 1993 John Wiley & Sons, Inc.