“…Still, encouraged by Timothy Anderson’s research (e.g., Anderson, Ogles, Patterson, Lambert & Vermeersch, 2009) and the literature on deliberate practice (e.g., Rousmaniere, 2017) we can pose the question if it would be possible to train therapists to help them to develop their ability to form alliances in complex multi‐actor settings. While this would probably include teaching certain skills and techniques, it might be necessary to also focus on the personal growth of the therapist (e.g., Aponte & Carlsen, 2009; Regas, Kostick, Bakaly & Doonan, 2017), as well as on the therapist’s process of self‐reflection (e.g., Burnham, 2005). It could even be considered to place the person of the therapist at the center of family therapy training (Simon, 2006).…”