Few-shot relation extraction aims to identify and extract semantic relations between entity pairs using only a small number of annotated instances. Many recently proposed prototype-based methods have shown excellent performance. However, existing prototype-based methods ignore the hidden inter-instance interaction information between the support and query sets, leading to unreliable prototypes. In addition, the current optimization of the prototypical network only relies on cross-entropy loss. It is only concerned with the accuracy of the predicted probability for the correct label, ignoring the differences of other non-correct labels, which cannot account for relation discretization in semantic space. This paper proposes an attentional network of interaction information to obtain a more reliable relation prototype. Firstly, an inter-instance interaction information attention module is designed to mitigate prototype unreliability through interaction information between the support set and query set instances, utilizing category information hidden in the query set. Secondly, the similarity scalar, which is defined by the mixed features of the prototype and the relation and is added to the focal loss to improve the attention of hard examples. We conducted extensive experiments on two standard datasets and demonstrated the validity of our proposed model.