Ab-initio calculations have been performed for the half-sandwich cation [(Me 5 C 5 )Si] + and its DME complex [(Me 5 C 5 )Si(DME)] + . For these cations, the ground state energies, the complexation energy, the frontier orbitals, the vertical singlet-triplet excitation energies, and the natural atomic charges have been calculated. In both cations, the "lone-pair" at silicon does not represent the HOMO. The nature of the weak dative O → Si bond can best be described in terms of electrostatic and attractive dispersion interactions. The DME coordination destabilizes the cluster orbitals and slightly enhances the positive charge at silicon.