Nicholas told Olivia he wants to divorce her. She is shocked by this news, angry with Nicholas, and sad about the breakdown of their relationship. She is especially worried about the impact on their two young children. Nicholas wants to move ahead with the arrangements, but Olivia did not anticipate his wish to divorce. She realizes that Nicholas has already collected information and contacted a lawyer.Olivia feels unprepared and worries that she will not be able to afford a lawyer.Douglas ordered a new printer from a large online retailer two weeks ago but notices that the cartridges leak. He e-mailed the retailer, but the retailer replied that ink cartridges are not under warrantee. Douglas is unsure about his rights as a consumer. He wants to contact the retailer again, but doubts whether he will be able to write an effective and convincing message.Olivia and Douglas face two very common problems. For divorce, statistics show that per year and per 1000 married people, almost 9 people get divorced in the Netherlands (CBS, 2020). Similar numbers are found in England and Wales (Office for National Statistics, 2022), with an even higher number of 16 people per 1000 in the US (based on married women only -Reynolds, 2020). With regard to consumer conflicts, the Dutch pathways to justice study (2019) shows that in the period 2015-2019, problems with the purchase of goods and services were the most common legal problems in the Netherlands (Ter Voert & Hoekstra, 2020). International surveys reveal a similar picture (Pleasence et al., 2013).Although the situations of Olivia and Douglas are very different, both can be defined as conflicts. That is, both Olivia and Douglas feel 'obstructed or irritated' by another party and will 'inevitably react to it in a beneficial or costly way' (Van de Vliert, 1997, p. 4). Such reactions can range from avoidance to problem solving, and from accommodating to fighting (Van de Vliert, 1997). Depending on such responses and how the conflict further unfolds, different outcomes may arise: there could be an agreement with high benefits and low costs to both parties, or an escalated stalemate with high costs and very little benefits for either party. It is also possible that one party 'wins' and the other 'loses', or the outcome may simply be a sustained status quo with continued obstruction and irritation (Van de Vliert, 1997). Both conflicts of Olivia and Douglas can also be considered legal conflicts, or conflicts with legal aspects ( Van de Vliert, 1996). In the case of Olivia's divorce, she will need the legal system to finalize the divorce, but possibly also for help with negotiations in preparation of the divorce agreement. In Douglas' consumer conflict, he could contact the other party himself. However, if he cannot reach a solution that way, legal routes are open to him. In the tradition of 'paths to justice', conflicts that could be handled in the legal system, even when they are not, and even when no action is taken, are considered 'justiciable events' or legal conflicts (Genn, 1...