Hurricane-Force Grief: A Mirror of Fathers’ Love

Abstract

A child’s death is a traumatic experience that profoundly impacts parents’ psychological, physical, and social wellbeing. The literature describes gender differences in grief response associated with child loss, yet less is known about fathers’ grief in comparison that of mothers due to fathers’ underrepresentation in bereavement research. There is a need for scholarly exploration to advance understanding of fathers’ grief. This article presents selected findings on fathers’ grief responses that emerged from a larger qualitative study, which aimed to describe fathers’ lived experience of bereavement after a child’s death. Profound grief emerged as one essential theme of fathers’ bereavement experience. Participants described the meaning of their grief, their multidimensional grief responses, their grief triggers, and their grief intensity. Findings deepen understanding of fathers’ grief associated with child loss and advance the body of parental bereavement literature.