“…Moreover, the strength model of self-control states that ego depleted individuals (i.e., actors) lack the necessary self-control resources to engage in effortful goal directed behavior (e.g., maintaining a long-term relationship with his/her partner; Baumeister, 2002). Consequently, the actor might not be able to carefully listen and pay attention when his/her partner shares worries, to place his/her partner's need above his/her own or to remain calm when his/her partner acts irritable (Danner-Vlaardingerbroeck, Kluwer, Van Steenbergen, & Van Der Lippe, 2016). In turn-being confronted with this undesired interpersonal behavior-, the actor's partner needs to invest selfcontrol resources him/herself when encountering these lacks of considerations of the actor in an attempt to act congruent with the long-term goal (e.g., maintaining a positive interpersonal relationship) and in an attempt to suppress an incivility spiral (Baumeister, 2002).…”