“…Findings from the wider survey, from which the current data set is drawn found that over half of all fathers (52%, 161/306) felt that having a child with autism had negatively affected their couple relationship (Potter, forthcoming) resonating with the results of a meta‐analysis which found relationship satisfaction amongst couples having children with autism to be lower than amongst those having children without disabilities (Sim, Cordier, Vaz, & Falkmer, ). The year following diagnosis has been reported as imposing particular stresses on couples (McGrew & Keyes, ) and here, insights into the kinds of pressures which diagnosis placed on relationships are provided from the paternal perspective.…”