“…Second, individuals who lack a sense of confidence in their abilities may feel a need to continue a spousal relationship or dependence on the spouse; they will feel incapable of handling problems on their own (Cotten, 1999). Additionally, research suggests that seeing a stressor as controllable and/or masterable is important for predicting the severity of a crisis (Reiss & Oliveri, 1983;Walker, 1985), especially when a situation is ambiguous (Lazarus & Folkman, 1984). Third, if a divorced individual has difficulty accepting the divorce and continues longing for the former spouse, he or she may be unlikely to move beyond these negative feelings and may have difficulty coping.…”