“…Kübler-Ross (1969/1970), in delineating the stages of grieving—denial, isolation, depression, bargaining, anger, hope, and acceptance—wrote, “Death itself is not the problem, but dying is feared because of the accompanying sense of hopelessness, helplessness, and isolation” (p. 246). Bowater (2008) described how fear of abandonment caused a crisis in her client’s life, even though the person had otherwise been strongly scripted for courage. Bosler (1976) illustrated through a case study of a terminally ill patient how the family members used transactional analysis permissions to treat both themselves and the dying person.…”