“…For example, pre-existing gender beliefs among family members, may explain imbalances in carer expectations, allocation of carer duties and help-seeking approach, particularly between sons and daughters (Addis & Mahalik, 2003; Tatangelo et al, 2018). Daughters are often expected to assume the caring role for their parent with dementia which might prevent them from readily seeking formal assistance (DiLeone, 2021; Romero-Moreno et al, 2014; Tatangelo et al, 2018), whereas sons will readily access formal help because they approach the caring role as “care managers” (Grigorovich et al, 2016, p.4) and may also receive more informal assistance, especially from their partners (Kwok, 2006; McDonnell & Ryan, 2013). Indeed, in this study, we found all sons had accessed formal services and expressed a desire for more support services.…”