“…Laws and policies born out of colonialism and white supremacy have specifically withheld the right to marry (i.e., anti-miscegenation laws) or have children (e.g., forced sterilization of women of Indigenous, Black, and Mexican and Puerto Rican descent) (Gutierrez & Fuentes, 2009), the right to land and other property rights, ownership of one's own body, the right to testify against a white person in court, employment rights, and protections against mass incarceration (Gómez et al, 2023;Harris, 1993;MacMullan, 2022;Mills, 2019). Even the father of marriage counseling within the United States, Paul Popenoe, was a proponent of positive eugenics or the promotion of marriage/family life among the right kind of family (Charlot et al, 2022;Jordan, 2021), furthering the influence of family privilege (Letiecq, 2019) for the standard North American family (i.e., white, middle-class, cis-gender, opposite-sex, married, monogamous couples raising their biological children in the family home they own).…”