“…Furthermore, not only were these gifts not discussed (at least according to the client reports), but neither was Emma's admitted use of the gifts as a means of expressing feelings she was uncomfortable verbalizing in the therapy nor her sense of the gifts as a way she could "repair" herself via behavior rather than therapeutic discussion. Echoing earlier theorists' concerns and contradicting other researchers' suggestions about gifts in therapy (Borys & Pope, 1989;Freud, 1917Freud, /1963Gerson & Fox, 1999;Glover, 1955;Hundert, 1998;Knox et al, 2003;Kritzberg, 1980;Langs, 1974;Lewinsky, 1951;Pope et al, 1987;Ruth, 1996;Simon, 1989;Spandler et al, 2000;Talan, 1989), Dr. E reportedly did not address Emma's motivations for giving the gifts, the nature of what they communicated, the prominent role they began to take in her therapy, nor their effect on the therapy process and relationship. Perhaps, following a more intersubjectivist approach (e.g., Atwood & Stolorow, 1984;Hahn, 1998;Stolorow & Atwood, 1996), Dr. E may have sought to affirm and accept Emma by accepting her gifts (although we cannot know this without having talked to the therapist).…”