“…To help new arrivals to settle (and to help their budget), they take in Italian lodgers: the wife reported that they only take unattached females, because Italian males do no housework, 'probably because they have been brought up by Italian mothers'. Her assessment of gender roles in contemporary Italy is confirmed, with reference to more complex scenarios, by sociological research (Anxo, Mencarini, Pailhé, Solaz, Tanturri, & Flood, 2011;Falcinelli & Magaraggia, 2013;Pacelli, Pasqua, & Villosio, 2013;Saraceno, 2000). This research is examined and compared with research on New Zealand in the final section of this article, to better tease out the ideals and realities of the lives of New Zealand mothers of Italian descent.…”