“…When drones (male honey bees) lose their reproductive function in the autumn they are expelled from the hive and die. Paleolithic grandparents, despite their weaker physique, provided selective advantage as information providers and educators carers of grandchildren ( Aimé, André, & Raymond, 2017 ; Thouzeau & Raymond, 2017 ), a grandparenting function that differs from those of animals where there are reproductive grandparents ( Péron et al, 2019 ). The evolutionary history of humans shows that, although relationships are important, survival depended on much more, for example, exploration and discovery, planning, nurturing, hunting and aggression, technological skills, education, remembering, problem solving etc., which are summarised to some extent by the primary motives of self-determination theory, connection, autonomy and competence ( Deci & Ryan, 2012 ).…”