“…One is to sit with us Not tell us what to do, but to sit with us and listen to us And it takes a long time [ ] You have to talk to the grandparents, extended family about their second cousin's being into boxing They will have a say [ ] You need permission through the community In addition, echoing the sentiments of Brant, Forsyth, Horn-Miller, Loutitt, Sinclair, and Smith (2002), the Aboriginal elite athletes explained the intricate relationship between cultural and spiritual elements that, if accepted by the coach, might be used as a means of performance enhancement For example, a boxer felt that having a sweat lodge before the fight would be beneficial for him In the First Nations cultural system, sweat lodge occupies a sacred ceremonial space and because it is so deeply ingrained into the indigenous way of Being, the Aboriginal athlete was uncomfortable about broaching this practice with his coach However, if the athlete's coaches were to ask him whether there was something he would like to do in preparation for the fight, the athlete contended that he would ask the coaches whether he could go to a sweat lodge Our in-depth interviews with the Canadian Aboriginal athletes revealed ongoing, messy, and sometimes conflicting negotiations and making sense of social relations, their place in them, and their (dis)connectedness with the social world This all produced a profound impact on these athletes' lives in general and sporting careers in particular These elite athletes articulated being subjected to racism, cultural prejudice and/or insensitivity, and misrepresentation in the mainstream cultural discourse One respondent stated that he had learned and become used to policing himself in everyday interactions Another athlete was "deafened" by silence surrounding his racial identity as he stated: "There are actually two of us that are Aboriginal on our team I think they know but they don't talk about it too much Actually they don't talk about it at all " Thus, our empirical findings validate conceptual and experiential underpinnings of the cultural model of applied sport psychology (Cox & Liu, 1993;Fisher et al, 2003;Kontos & Arguello, 2005;Ryba, 2003;Ryba & Fisher, 2004;Ryba & Wright, 2005;Schinke et al , 2005) Interestingly, the Aboriginal athletes indicated that recent immigrant coaches, who were not aware of the infamous indigenous "natural" athletic abilities, tended to emphasize similarity rather than difference, ask questions about the athlete's cultural background and practices and, consequently, were able to connect better with the Aboriginal athlete This finding suggests that contrary to the "color blindness" that many non-immigrant coaches use to attempt to erase the difference, immigrant coaches seek to understand the difference; they ask questions and listen As one participant astutely put it:…”