“…First, clinicians have noted that it is normative for survivors of abuse not to disclose this history to their therapist (Busby et al, 1993;Johnson, 1989;Josephson & Fong-Beyette, 1987;McCarthy, 1997;Mennen & Pearlmutter, 1993;Miller & Sutherland, 1999;Nelson & Wampler, 2000;Reid, Taylor, & Wampler, 1995;Roche, Runtz, & Hunter, 1999;Sheldon, 1988). Without knowledge of the abuse or without appreciation for how abuse might affect a couple, the therapist will not have the information necessary to optimize treatment (Busby et al, 1993;Cobia, Sobansky, & Ingram, 2004;Feinauer, 1989b;Gelinas, 1983).…”