In this article, gendered communication in computer-mediated conferences used as part of two education classes at a small liberal arts college is discussed. The authors maintain that attempts to create democratic classrooms are undermined by the conventional gender-marked dynamics of face-to-face dialogue, but that these dynamics show potential for being transformed in some positive ways when the dialogues move to a virtual space. Drawing on the conceptual frameworks of Bourdieu and postmodern feminisms, critical discourse analysis is used to examine two extended online conversations in which issues and performances of gender were central. It was observed that sometimes in their online interactions students replicated familiar patterns of face-to-face gender interaction, but at other times they engaged in markedly different kinds of communication in which conventional patterns were disrupted. The authors conclude by seeking to understand the relationships between those aspects of the observed conversations that reproduced conventional gender dynamics and positions, and those that appeared more transformative and liberatory.As teachers of undergraduate men and women we have committed ourselves to making education -theirs and ours -as democratic as possible. We must report that acting on this commitment in everyday situations often feels like walking upstream against a strong current with very unsure footing. Not only is the very idea of democracy in education elusive at best, but there are pressures from our students, from the institution in which we work, from our culture generally, and from within ourselves to just give it up. These pressures, and the power to make them effective, do not present themselves as prohibitions, threats of force or overt resistances, but rather through distributed networks of power expressed in everyday interpersonal interactions. In complex modern institutions like schools, as Foucault (1980, p. 188 there is no need for arms, physical violence, material constraints. Just a gaze. An inspecting gaze, a gaze which each individual under its weight will end by interiorizing to the point that s/he is his/her own overseer, each individual thus exercising this surveillance over and against him/herself. We must not take the notion of 'gaze' too literally, because it takes many forms besides the scopic. In schools, we can think also of the examination, the comments on students' papers and in faculty review files, the very presence of college committees on 'academic affairs', parental and peer talk about student careers, and many other ways in which fealty to unspoken norms of behaviour and expectation is enforced through internalisation. The result is that non-democratic arrangements in the classroom are perceived as natural and desirable, and our urge even to bring it up is judged by many students, many of our colleagues and even ourselves at times, as detracting from the necessary business at end, that is, from education.Nevertheless, it remains our conviction that issues of empowerment, ...