“…From this perspective, the therapist's task is to remain fluid and follow the shifting dissociated communications, rather than to remain locked-in to any single repetitive enactment that may become perseverative and stifle movement in the relationship (Davies & Frawley, 1994). The therapeutic process of sorting out mutual enactments, and negotiating unwanted affect is, in fact, the intimate edge where transforming negotiations most often occur (Aron, 1991(Aron, , 1992Black, 2002;Benjamin, 1998;Bridges, 2001;Bromberg, 1998;Cooper, 1998;Davies & Frawley, 1994;Ehrenberg, 1992; STARTLING AFFECT IN THERAPEUTIC RELATIONSHIPS 15 Gorkin, 1987;Hoffman, 1983;Jacobs, 1991;Maroda, 1991Maroda, , 1999aMaroda, , 1999bMitchell, 1988Mitchell, , 2000Ogden, 1994). Aron (1996) states that, "Enactments are crucial therapeutic events that constitute the very essence of treatment" (p.215).…”