SUMMARYA non-conforming, discontinuous Galerkin finite element-boundary element coupling procedure is presented for the exterior planar Stokes problem. The novel coupled formulation is developed using that for the conforming case as a guide to the introduction of extra mortar variables used to couple a discontinuous interior finite element solution with a continuous exterior boundary element solution. Convergence results for the new scheme are presented, for a range of different interior penalties, on computational domains discretized with regular structured meshes.To illustrate an application, the excitations required to model two-phase droplet deformations in an extensional flow, under simple surface tension, with the new scheme are also presented. For a selection of different drop viscocities and exterior flows, with and without a rotational component, the progression to a steady-state deformation of initially undeformed circular drops is calculated and the results compared with those from both a conforming FEM-BEM equivalent scheme and from a small perturbation analysis where available.